How about the fact that not everyone picks fast-paced shooters or creepy horror games? There’s a big difference. Tons of games out there. What you play really affects how it feels.
Thing is, for me games are more about getting hyped, I dunno, like getting energized or something. Especially if I pick something fast-paced, like shooters or horror games. And I recently found out that for a lot of people, games are actually more about calming down.